Eva van Barneveld

The relationship of Hetty (76) & Jeanne (91) changes when dementia starts to affect Jeanne’s behaviour. Should Hetty seek support even if it feels like a betrayal?

Hetty (76) and Jeanne (91) are two lovers, enjoying their colourful life together. But slowly, their carefree spirit dwindles now that dementia is gradually affecting Jeanne’s behaviour. Inevitably, their relationship is changing. Hetty faces the dilemma of how to best engage with her lover, now that her abilities are compromised. Should she seek support from others, even if it feels like she is betraying Jeanne?